Written on:
Sunday, July 18, 2010
hMMM... oNe yEaR and oNe mOnTh...
tHaT’s hOw LoNg i’Ve bEEn iN mY LDR.
niNe mOnThs aNd tHrEE wEEks...
iS hOw LoNg i’Ve nOt sEEn jiMMy.
wHoA...
i diDn’T kNoW tHaT wAs hOw LoNg iT wAs
tiLL i sTaRtEd caLcuLaTinG tHe figUrE.
iT’S pReTTy unBeLiEvAbLe
tHaT
i’Ve LaStEd thiS LoNg...
nO, cOrrEctiOn.
iN mY cAsE,
iT’s AMAZING tHaT i’Ve eVeN LAsTeD a wEEK!!
cOs i’Ve aLwAyS bEEn aGaiNsT iT
aNd i’M a biG diSbELieVeR oF LDR aS weLL.
aNd i’Ve aLwAyS diScoUrAge aNy oF mY friEnDs
frOm cOmmiTTinG tHeMsELvEs tO sUcH rELaTiOnsHiP.
aS i feLt iT’s aN aUtOmAtiC rELaTiOnsHip sUiCiDe.
bEcOs sPeaKiNg fRoM eXpEriEnCe,
i aCtuALLy gAVe uP mY fiRsT rELaTioNsHiP
wHeN iT cAmE tO tHe pOiNt
wHeRe iT hAD tUrNeD iNtO a LDR.
sO i gUeSS, u cOuLd sAY...
i’Ve gRoWn uP a LoT siNcE tHeN.
bEcOs nOw iNsTeAd oF waLkiNg aWaY
aNd tAkiNg tHe eAsy wAy oUt,
i sTaYed On aNd wOrKeD eVeN hArDer aT iT.
iT wAsn’T eAsy...
cOs wHeN iT wAs bAd, iT wAs rEaLLy bAd.
uNLiKe bEiNg iN a nOrmaL rELaTioNsHiP,
yOu cOuLd aLwAyS mEEt uP aNd pAtcH uP.
kiSS aNd mAkE uP.
wHeReaS iN a LDR,
yOu’Re miLLiOns oF miLe aWay
fRoM yOuR oThEr haLf.
aNd aLL yOu cAn reLy oN
iS yOuR moBiLe aNd intErnEt.
hOwevEr, cOmmuNicAtiNg tHrU sUcH mEaNS
wOuLd eiThEr mAke yoU...
oR bReaK yOu.
aS tHiNgs cOuLd bE eAsiLy miSiNteRpReTed tHrOuGh
sMsEs aNd pHoNe cALLs.
oNe wOrD uSed wiThoUt muCh tHougHt iN a sMs
cOuLd LeAd tO mOrE miSunDersTaNdiNg.
aN aCCiDeNtaL wRoNg tOnE oF vOiCe
dUriNg tHaT vErY iMpoRtAnT phOnecaLL,
wOuLd bRiNg mOrE diSaStEr
fRoM tHe oThEr eNd oF tHe LiNe.
I wOn’t dEnY tHeRe wErE tiMes,
I rEaLLy tHouGht iT wAs gOnnA bE tHe eNd oF uS.
aNd tHeRe wAs nO tUrniNg bAcK fRoM tHeRe.
bUt aFtEr a yEaR oF LDR,
i rEcKoN wE bOtH hAvE adApTeD tO oUr cUrrEnt siTuAtiOn.
mOsT dAyS aRe jUsT sO eAsy tO gEt bY...
bUt tHeRe aRe tHoSe dAys,
wHeN yOu jUsT rEaLLy miSS eAcH oThEr!!!
dOn’T LaUgh...
bUt dUriNg tHoSe tiMes oF tUrMoiL,
i aCtuaLLy wEnT oNLinE
aNd sEaRcH fOr aRtiCLeS oN hOw tO sUrvivE LDRs.
aNd wOuLdn’T yOu bELiEvE iT oR nOt...
iT rEaLLy diD hELp mE aNd oUr rELaTiOnsHiP.
aNywAy, hErE aRe mY tOp tWO sUrViVaL tiPs
fOr aNyoNe wHo’s iN a LDR
oR aT LeaSt gOinG tO bE...
sOmE maY sEEm pReTTy oBviOuS.
bUt sOmeTiMeS, yOu fOrgEt...
wHeN yOu’rE iN oNe.
oKaY, sO hErE gOeS...
aLwAYs rEmEmBeR tO nEvEr fOrGeT yOuRseLf.
dOn’T rEvOLvE yOuR wHoLe LiFe oN tHe ReLaTiOnsHiP.
LiVe yOuR LiFe.
sO tHe bOtH oF yOu wiLL hAve mOrE tHinGs tO sHaRe
and taLk aBouT wiTh eAch oThEr.
pLuS, iT’s hEaLthY tO bE iNdEpEnDenT oF eACh oThEr.
aNd nExT iS tRuSt.
I kNoW eVeryOnE kNoWs tRuSt iS rEaLLy iMpOrTaNt iN eVeRy rELaTiOnsHiP.
bUt iN a LDR, TrUsT iS ReALLy aLL yOu hAvE.
cOs wiThoUt iT, tHeRe’s jUsT nO pOinT
gOiNg tHrOuGh wiTh iT.
dUe tO tHe miStAkeS i hAVe mAdE
iN tHe pAsT bEfOrE i mEt jiMMy,
i hAvE unWittiNgLy bEcOme
an oBsEsSiVe,
pOssEssiVe,
jEaLoUs mOnStEr
sUffEriNg FrOm aN eXtReMe cASe oF pArAnOia.
wHiCh diDn’T quiTe heLp oUr siTuAtiOn.
hOwEvEr, i’Ve LeArNt tO tOtaLLy LeT LooSe
aNd jUsT TRUST hiM.
aNd i’Ve LeArNt tO bE mOrE
pAtiEnT,
uNdErsTaNdiNg
aNd eMpaThEtiC oF hiM aS wELL.
hOweVeR, mOsT oF aLL...
wHaT rEaLLy hELps iN sUrViViNg a LDR
iS
tHe riGhT mAn.
sOmEoNe wHo’s wiLLiNg tO wOrK As hArd aT iT aS yOu do.
sOmEoNe wHo wiLL nEvEr sToP cAriNg.
sOmEoNe wHo’s sEriOus aBouT yOu aS yOu aRe aBoUt hiM.
tHaNk goD, mY otHeR haLf iS mY riGhT mAN
cOs,
tHouGh wE mAy hAVe oUr dOwN mOmEnTs,
jiMMy hAs aLwAys mAkE iT eAsY fOr tHe bOtH oF uS
aNd
aLwAys hELd oN, nO mAttEr wHaT.
aNywAy, aBouT a MonTh aGo,
i fOuNd a SoNg tHaT rEaLLy rEsOnATEs wiTh tHe tiMeS
wE wErE oN sHaKy gRouNdS...
eVeRyThiNg iN tHe sOnG iS jUsT sO rEaL tO mE.
jUsT wAnnA sHaRe thiS sOnG wiTh yOu aLL.
iT’s a rEaLLy gOOd sOnG
bY LaDy aNteBeLLuM,
caLLeD...
“nEEd yOu nOw”.
hOpE yOu eNjoY iT!!!
Lyrics:
Picture perfect memories,
Scattered all around the floor.
Reaching for the phone cause, I cant fight it anymore.
And I wonder if I ever cross your mind.
For me it happens all the time.
Its a quarter after one, Im all alone and I need you now.
Said I wouldnt come, but I lost all control and I need you now.
And I dont know how I can do without, I just need you now.
Another shot of whiskey, cant stop looking at the door.
Wishing you’d come sweeping in the way you did before.
And I wonder if I ever cross your mind.
For me it happens all the time.
Its a quarter after one, Im a little drunk,
And I need you now.
Said I wouldnt call but I lost all control and I need you now.
And I dont know how I can do without, I just need you now.
Yes Id rather hurt than feel nothing at all.
Its a quarter after one, Im all alone and I need you now.
And I said I wouldnt call but Im a little drunk and I need you now.
And I dont know how I can do without, I just need you now.
I just need you now.
Oh baby I need you now.
Labels: bAbY, eMoTiOnAL sOnG, LDRs, LoVe
